I was 15 years old and just was in high school 5 years ago. But now, I become a second year student in university. Some people who had known me for a long time said that now they really did not recognize me because I had many differences.Sometimes when I look myself in mirror, I have to claim they were right.
I never forget all of things at that time. First,I was very big -50 kg but my high is just 1m59 in high school. Therefore,my friend usually called me with the name Big Girl( Be Bu).I didn't like that name. Second,I had a very short hair with a round face that made me looked like a mobile mushroom.I always wore a glass in everytime except sleeping and taking a bath.Mobile mushroom wore glass that made me very self-conscious and sad.I used to be a shy girl. I didn't dare to talk with someone first so I didn't have many friends.Therefore,I just went to school and after I came back my house everyday.I rarely go out with somebody. I just knew stuying and studying.Inaddition,my hobby at that time just was reading book and manga.
My life went by like that untill I finished my studying in high school and went to university .It had many new things to me.New friends, new teacher,new methodology. I realized I need to change myselft.I don't want to pass the life like in high school. First, I changed my hair. I decided to raise it. And now It's very long and straight is my pride. I am still 1m59 but my weigh lost 6 kilograms.Instead of saying to me"you're so big",myfriends now tell me that I were thin. I was very pleased.Second,Now I have a self-confidence in myself. I enjoy spending times with other people, more going out with my friends. Especially I am not too shy and I usually try to make friends with everybody first.I am more friendly,open my heart so now I have many friends. My life is very great,it's not boring and lonely anymore.
I have many diffrences in both my outer and inner but I am still me. I still like reading cook and manga. I still love my parents, my friends. sometimes the changes is not so bad. It makes your life more interesting and better than before. and to me I think my changes is good.
Thứ Bảy, 11 tháng 12, 2010
Should parents smack or spank their child?
Thy,who's my neighborhood,is just 8 years old. Yesterday,she came to my house and said to me that her mother gave her a spank because she climed the tree. I thought that was just a mischievous action of a playful kid so I don't think parents should smack or spank their child when their child do something wrong.
More than 90 percent parents in Viet Nam said that they had smacked their children.They though that was the good way to teach child but thay really didn't know doing like that will be a bad influence to physical development and mental development of the child if we ubuse.
First, children is in state of developing so the body is not complete. When you smack them it means you will hurt them and it'll be bad effect to their health, they can get sick or they 'll be weaker than normal child. Second, children always want to discovery new things. But sometimes they explore in wrong ways. Therefore, parents show them the right ways by using physical punishment.Maybe it will make kid scare and they don't do like that again. But some kids may too scared with parent's smacking or spanking so that they don't dare to explore any thing. Inaddition, it can be made a wall between parents and child.Child think that how thay can talk to who didn't want to listen to them. And the misunderstanding will accumulate day by day. the relationship will be worse and worse.
Morever, almost parents think smacking or spanking is just very usual and can be not a worse impact to child but in fact this really can becomme a cause of misbehaviours of child in the future.The mind of children is the same as a new paper and parents is the lesson for kid to learn and write what they learn on it.Children learn attitudes and bahaviours by imitating parents' action.They might think that their parents are models and always right so kid observe and try to do follow them. And even when kids see their parents used physical punishment to them, they can form a thinking that using violence is the quick way to solve problems. After that they do that to their friends or someone eles who is smaller and weaker than them. And if they still keep thinking like that day by day, they will become a crime oneday. That is not what parents want for their child.
Children is the future of the country. So educating them is very important. However we need to know what education is good and what is not good. We should not abuse your strong power to teach child and we just use physical punishment in some cases that are really really neccesary . But in my opinion, I think the truly good way to educate children is guide gentle, listen to them and really want to understand them by you heart.
More than 90 percent parents in Viet Nam said that they had smacked their children.They though that was the good way to teach child but thay really didn't know doing like that will be a bad influence to physical development and mental development of the child if we ubuse.
First, children is in state of developing so the body is not complete. When you smack them it means you will hurt them and it'll be bad effect to their health, they can get sick or they 'll be weaker than normal child. Second, children always want to discovery new things. But sometimes they explore in wrong ways. Therefore, parents show them the right ways by using physical punishment.Maybe it will make kid scare and they don't do like that again. But some kids may too scared with parent's smacking or spanking so that they don't dare to explore any thing. Inaddition, it can be made a wall between parents and child.Child think that how thay can talk to who didn't want to listen to them. And the misunderstanding will accumulate day by day. the relationship will be worse and worse.
Morever, almost parents think smacking or spanking is just very usual and can be not a worse impact to child but in fact this really can becomme a cause of misbehaviours of child in the future.The mind of children is the same as a new paper and parents is the lesson for kid to learn and write what they learn on it.Children learn attitudes and bahaviours by imitating parents' action.They might think that their parents are models and always right so kid observe and try to do follow them. And even when kids see their parents used physical punishment to them, they can form a thinking that using violence is the quick way to solve problems. After that they do that to their friends or someone eles who is smaller and weaker than them. And if they still keep thinking like that day by day, they will become a crime oneday. That is not what parents want for their child.
Children is the future of the country. So educating them is very important. However we need to know what education is good and what is not good. We should not abuse your strong power to teach child and we just use physical punishment in some cases that are really really neccesary . But in my opinion, I think the truly good way to educate children is guide gentle, listen to them and really want to understand them by you heart.
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