You now and 5 years ago

I was 15 years old and just was in high school 5 years ago. But now, I become a second year student in university. Some people who had known me for a long time said that now they really did not recognize me because I had many differences.Sometimes when I look myself in mirror, I have to claim they were right.
I never forget all of things at that time. First,I was very big -50 kg but my high is just 1m59 in high school. Therefore,my friend usually called me with the name Big Girl( Be Bu).I didn't like that name. Second,I had a very short hair with a round face that made me looked like a mobile mushroom.I always wore a glass in everytime except sleeping and taking a bath.Mobile mushroom wore glass that made me very self-conscious and sad.I used to be a shy girl. I didn't dare to talk with someone first so I didn't have many friends.Therefore,I just went to school and after I came back my house everyday.I rarely go out with somebody. I just knew stuying and studying.Inaddition,my hobby at that time just was reading book and manga.
My life went by like that untill I finished my studying in high school and went to university .It had many new things to me.New friends, new teacher,new methodology. I realized I need to change myselft.I don't want to pass the life like in high school. First, I changed my hair. I decided to raise it. And now It's very long and straight is my pride. I am still 1m59 but my weigh lost 6 kilograms.Instead of saying to me"you're so big",myfriends now tell me that I were thin. I was very pleased.Second,Now I have a self-confidence in myself. I enjoy spending times with other people, more going out with my friends. Especially I am not too shy and I usually try to make friends with everybody first.I am more friendly,open my heart so now I have many friends. My life is very great,it's not boring and lonely anymore.
I have many diffrences in both my outer and inner but I am still me. I still like reading cook and manga. I still love my parents, my friends. sometimes the changes is not so bad. It makes your life more interesting and better than before. and to me I think my changes is good.

Should parents smack or spank their child?

Thy,who's my neighborhood,is just 8 years old. Yesterday,she came to my house and said to me that her mother gave her a spank because she climed the tree. I thought that was just a mischievous action of a playful kid so I don't think parents should smack or spank their child when their child do something wrong.
More than 90 percent parents in Viet Nam said that they had smacked their children.They though that was the good way to teach child but thay really didn't know doing like that will be a bad influence to physical development and mental development of the child if we ubuse.
First, children is in state of developing so the body is not complete. When you smack them it means you will hurt them and it'll be bad effect to their health, they can get sick or they 'll be weaker than normal child. Second, children always want to discovery new things. But sometimes they explore in wrong ways. Therefore, parents show them the right ways by using physical punishment.Maybe it will make kid scare and they don't do like that again. But some kids may too scared with parent's smacking or spanking so that they don't dare to explore any thing. Inaddition, it can be made a wall between parents and child.Child think that how thay can talk to who didn't want to listen to them. And the misunderstanding will accumulate day by day. the relationship will be worse and worse.
Morever, almost parents think smacking or spanking is just very usual and can be not a worse impact to child but in fact this really can becomme a cause of misbehaviours of child in the future.The mind of children is the same as a new paper and parents is the lesson for kid to learn and write what they learn on it.Children learn attitudes and bahaviours by imitating parents' action.They might think that their parents are models and always right so kid observe and try to do follow them. And even when kids see their parents used physical punishment to them, they can form a thinking that using violence is the quick way to solve problems. After that they do that to their friends or someone eles who is smaller and weaker than them. And if they still keep thinking like that day by day, they will become a crime oneday. That is not what parents want for their child.
Children is the future of the country. So educating them is very important. However we need to know what education is good and what is not good. We should not abuse your strong power to teach child and we just use physical punishment in some cases that are really really neccesary . But in my opinion, I think the truly good way to educate children is guide gentle, listen to them and really want to understand them by you heart.

What's the most important invention?

Day after day, our life is more and more convenient and modern. We think about new things and create them to serve us. Therefore, many new inventions are born every years from over the world such as cellphones,television,electric lamp, robots and etc. All is important and in my opinion, the most prominent invention today is computer.
The first, computer can store a huge mount of information that people can not.For example, if you are a secretary,how you can remember everything in your company from profile of your boss to employee's profile? Computer can remember for you. And when your boss ask you, you just have to click and print.So your job will be easier.In addition, you can find information about anything you want to know from over the world.
The second, computer help us work,study and do many thing without going out. We can stay at home and do what we want. We can find information for working online, we also learn at home by teacing online programs. It's very useful because many people can't go out their home but they still communicate with society. For example, house wife is busy because she has to do house works and takes care of her children. She can shopping but still care of her family with shopping online, such as old people that is too old to go out, they also can buy something for them withou make their family annoyed.

beautiful moment

Every time I hear someone talk about the beach, I miss my holiday in Nha Trang beach again. It was a long time since the first time I went to there so I can not remember everything but I has a moment that is always in my mind clearly.
I came Nha Trang with my friend and her family. We stayed at here 4 days. Nha Trang was so wonderful with friendly people and beautiful places. My friend and I went everywhere. We rent bike and rode around Nha Trang. We played on the seaside and ate delicious seafood. It was very great! Our holiday passed fastly.
On the last day,I could not sleep eventhough we would come home tomorrow. And when it was just 4:30 am,I woke up and did not sleep anymore. I decided to go out alone and see Nha Trang the last before I left here. It was quite dark. People was sleeping and dreaming their dream. I took a walk on the sea side. The air was fresh. The wind blew sightly and brought a little cold slowly to my inside. Many stars were sparling in the dark sky. It seemed as if they were smiling with me.I took off my shoes and keep walking.The sands was smooth,cold and white. I recognized it had many small crab on the shore but I rarely saw them at the day. They ran quickly from this hole to that hole like they was doing a secret or bad thing so they did not want someone else see that. "Or they were too shy" I thought. They looked very funny.
I stopped walking and sat down a rock. wind still wispered to my eyes, it brought the salt smelt. I saw the sea. water was blue and cold. trong waves ran and clapped into the bank and after that made white foam. Some people was swimming near the seaside. The voices and laughes mixed the hiss of wind and waves. Far away, the black boats were casting the net to catch fish. Morning dew spreaded everything. The great mountains sometimes were hided liked big wall after the curtain.And then the first sunlight was shining gradually. The sun rised slowly behind mountain ranges liked a big fire ball.It brought warm sunlight to everything. It radiated splendid halo so that it made the dew disappear. The water sparkle in the sun.Bird flew in the blue sky to sing beautiful melody.
Everything seemed to step out a picture. The happiness and cheerfulness overflew of my heart. I realized that how much the life was lovely! And I wished I could com back Nha Trang every summer holiday.

you can lose almost anything except for your belief

Sometimes in my life,I fell very tired to believe and want to leave everything behind my back.I want to live somewhere that no one can't find me and let thing goes on like it has to be. That's all I want but I don't do it because running is not the good way. I find the belief to live and pass the hard time. It's better.So that belief is very important,especial belief yourself. Have you ever lost your belief? In the past,I had.
I was born in a poor family. My parents had to work very hand to take care of our life. when I was a child, I was sooner aware that so I tried my best in my studying. I learned very well. My parents were proud of me.When I graduated high school, I decided to register Economic University. I thought I would have chance to find a good job and make our living better if I graduated this school. At the contest, I was not nervous ,even I was so confident with my task. I thought I couldn't failed. I claimed with my parents:" I did it very well!"
However,the real life did not like your dream. I failed. I was so shock. I could not believe in my ears and my eyes. I could not used any words to describe my emotion at that moment.I just could see the sorrow in my parents's eyes. They were so disappointed but they did not shout me any words. I lost belief in everything, especially in myself. I hate myself.I wondered:" What I did?"" How this happened to me?" I stayed in my room all day and did not go to outside. I cried and I wished tears could bring everything out of me. I closed my eyes and wished when I opened it, all of this was a dream. The dream I never wanted to have.
I thought it was the and of my life. I could not make my parents upset about me. So after being room 4 days, I decided to leave my home.At the midnight, when my parents and my brothers were sleeping, I went. I tried to run out of everything, find a solution for me. I went to the beach and had terrible idea in my mind. I sit in front of the sea and saw the waves clap into the shore. I wondered what would happened if I go into sea and never com back. My head was emptiness.
The wind blew and brought cold. It seemed to touch inside my heart. No one was here, just the sea and I. And when I was looking waves, I saw a small crab that were called Da Trang. He tried to bring sands to fill the sea." How can he fill the ocean?""He is so silly!". But after that I racognize myself that I was silly,too. He was just a small animal but he had great belief. He belived that he could fill the sea.He belived and he had a motivation to live, he thought and he did. And me, a human that had thinking,how I could not think and do like Da Trang even though it was the 1 time.
I realized what I should do. I took a deep breath and ran as fast as I could to my house. My parents woke up. I ran to hug them deeply.I said that I would registered next year.
Now, I am finishing my last studying at Economic University. I take my belief back and I will never lose it again. I think when you still believe, everything can become true and If you lose it, you'll lose many things.so keep your belief in everything,especial in yourself.